Getting in touch with oneself, making contact with oneself, feel what does me and others good.
Being in touch with the language of my heart. I decide whether I will allow myself to be provoked and whether I react to sarcastic remarks.
I decide in what way I allow myself to be played with. I also decide whether I want to play the same game, which I can see the other person playing. For a »separation in love« the direction is clear: it leads to a place where support, kindness, help and all manner of useful things can be found. The rule is: there are no losers.
A book is no substitute for the goodwill each person needs in order to create something that is good in the relationship.