Steps for Going Forward in a Partnership

or practicing »Separation in Love«

We  look upon  a relationship  on the verge of falling apart as a misfortune.

You  yourself  can feel  the amount of power,  bonds  and substance that is  there.  Everything  that  has  been now  makes  up the memories  of the history of this relationship.

Feelings overwhelm you;  feelings of hate, of humiliation, of repression, of endurance.  Going down this path will get you nowhere. You are wallowing  in  accusations,  excuses and illusions,  which  are followed  by disappointments. Stop that.

Face the facts. Is there any chance of achieving a balance in the relationship?  Talk to your partner about your fears of separation.

There were two people involved in this »work of art called marriage«.