or practicing »Separation in Love«
We look upon a relationship on the verge of falling apart as a misfortune.
You yourself can feel the amount of power, bonds and substance that is there. Everything that has been now makes up the memories of the history of this relationship.
Feelings overwhelm you; feelings of hate, of humiliation, of repression, of endurance. Going down this path will get you nowhere. You are wallowing in accusations, excuses and illusions, which are followed by disappointments. Stop that.
Face the facts. Is there any chance of achieving a balance in the relationship? Talk to your partner about your fears of separation.
There were two people involved in this »work of art called marriage«.