Respect for Your Partner

I  show  respect  for  my  partner  by thanking him/her for all the good I received.

I  show  respect  by assuming that my partner did the best he could. It is not  necessary  for  me  to  point  out what he did not do  or stopped doing; it was not possible at the time, otherwise he would have done it.  No:  »If only  you  had ...«  or  »Why  didn’t you…«

I give respect by showing consideration for my partner’s fear of separation; by taking what I did as mine and leaving what he did with him.

By respecting my partner I achieve the ability to separate.

Everyone does his or her best!