How You Will Benefit

by Not Blaming Each Other

There can’t be any blame! If you want »to separate in love« don’t ever search for causes!  There are too many  reasons.  No one knows  whether those you find were the actual cause for the separation. Additionally, it achieves nothing  apart  from causing  feelings of guilt. Wherever there is guilt, a cause will be sought.

Use your  strength for the solution. The solution is not to be found in the past,  but in your love for yourself and for your partner. A love that once was present.  Just  remember.  In  a crisis, and even during the process of separation,  this love  can be  the  rope  with which you can pull yourself out of the mire of mutual blame.

He that seeks to blame refuses to see his own guilt.