What we (both partners) can do
The two contracts included in the book can serve to develop the ability to separate in the sense of »Separation in Love«.
Just as each partner perceived the relationship from his own perspective: »I felt quite good, I felt I was being used, I felt too much was expected of me, I felt unloved etc.«
The relationship level in separation/divorce is up to the partners, in view of the fact that the law is only interested in the objective, material level.
In the unique turmoil of divorce it is as though people become paralyzed by their feelings.
When love for each other is greater than the need for each other, the result is a happy partnership.