Contract for Separation in Love

What we (both partners) can do

The  two  contracts  included  in  the book can serve to develop the ability to separate in the sense of »Separation in Love«.

Just as each partner perceived the relationship  from his own perspective: »I felt quite good, I felt I was being used, I felt too much was expected of me, I felt unloved etc.«

The  relationship  level  in separation/divorce  is  up to the partners,  in view  of  the  fact  that  the law is only interested  in  the  objective, material level.

In the unique turmoil of divorce it is as though people become paralyzed by their feelings.

When love for each other is greater than the need for each other, the result is a happy partnership.