Before it happens and afterwards
Possible ways towards a solution. Try out the possible solutions, with partner or alone.
It is an assortment of possible solutions, some of which will be more and some less appropriate. Love in a partnership is more than the absence of war in the relationship.
If the stormy times of being in love have transformed into a love between partners we should review these times of partnership and friendship, remembering what kept us together at the time.
Partners will find a willingness to change if they feel that they are respected and loved just as they are.
Each person, each partner can only find his own way.